What is the most effective way to spank an 8yr old boy? He has starting being a smart mouth, back talking, and not minding(has to be told many time to do things). Swats to his jeans with my hand aren't working as well as they use to so I was woundering. What is the most effective way to spank an 8yr old boy?
10 points for the anwser that works the best and/or is the most helpful. |
| Tell him to go pull his pants down and wait on the bed. Then he will be scared of them, and they hurt more on skin. Tell him you feel bad doing it but you have to. Time out's and grounding work for lesser or worse offenses. |
I asked is its legle to spank a 12 boy with his pants down because of low grades? it's my grandson and his dad is doing it with his stepmom right there. The boy has kearning disability like his brother who don't live with him. |
| no this is far from right at 12 years old its degradeing for the boy who sounds like he cant help it this is bang out of order im not a person against smacking a guy if they deserve it but in the 6 years i have been a step farther to 2 boys and 3 years farther of twins my hand has never touched them and ive had some chances but in my eyes when i say deserves it i mean when they are much older and do something discracefull like beating some one up and leaveing them in the street just for fun not for getting bad grades due to a dissability talk about kicking a guy when there down |
Would you spank a 13yr old boy for talking back and calling his mom a B*TCH? Would you spank him on the bare bottom? Yes or No? What would you spank him with? |
| sure i will spank him bare with a belt |
Under what circumstances would you spank a 14 year old boy for punishment? If you don't believe in spanking that old you can say so, but please no messages about how you think spankings are wrong. |
Underage sex, running away, vandalism, criminal acts not covered by vandalism (especially drinking, drug-taking, joy riding, and keying), skipping (cutting) school, disrespect, defiance, deliberate disobedience, hurting family members and destruction of family property. I would also ground him and take away all his possessions and sell them. He would be denied the use of the telephone (including cell phone), tv, computer, internet (he can write his homework by hand), dvd player, etc. And if he really did something wrong, I would hire a babysitter for him to watch him when I wasn't home and to walk him to and from school.
You should be mindful of the fact that your parents are not your friends but your parents. You must obey them in their commands until you turn 18 (or whatever the age of majority is in your location) and if you do not, they can correct you. Their duty is to raise you to be a self-sufficient, respectable young man, and you must participate in this process. Take care. |
How come when I tell this boy in the preschool I need to speak with him he asks if I am going to spank him? This has happened twice now. I'll ask him to do something, he won't, I'll ask maybe one or two more times, and if he doesn't I say "Adrian please come over here I want to speak too you" and he'll ask if I am going to spank him and put his hands behind his back.
He might get spanked at home but why would I spank him!? |
Since u are the authority figure in his life at school he may think that all people in authority will spank him if he's not listening like his parents do at home. Just keep reminding him that u don't spank and that u really just want to talk to him about his bad behavior and eventually he will learn that u won't spank him. Young guyren take time to learn that one authority figure does things differently then another might.
Hope this helps, :D |
How do you spank a 5 yearold boy? my 5 year old keeps hitting his sister. I am going to spank him but how? |
| At 5 he is old enough to know better. Put him over you lap and deliver about 10 good solid swats with your hand, that is enough. Remember, never spank a guy when you are angry, never spank him anywhere other than on his bottom and never with anything other than your open hand. |
Would you spank a 15yr old boy? me&my guy friend had a dissagreement over this,he wants to discipline his girlfriends son who is 15 yrs old by actually bending him over his knee and spanking him but i think that the boy is way too old for that,i stopped getting spankings when i was in elementry school then after that my parents would just ground me or take away my tv&phone privilages what do you think? |
Not only would I, but I have. My sons are 18 and 15, and both are still subject to spanking as well as other punishments when needed. My parents continued to spank me until I was 23 and finished with college, and I wouldn't trade the way I was raised for anything.
All of you people who think 15 is too old for spanking are way off base. |
Why do SOME boy like to spank girls, I love it why??? I love it when my boyfriend spanks me and loves it too, even tho it hurts for some reason I love the control they have and how I realy listen because it does hurt. I like the spankings and I listen because of it WHY? Boys answer. and if you dont like it don't anwser. Girls why do we like it? Guys what ticks you off enought to spank? |
| because, if a girl deserves it, then its the only way to teach her a lesson, the man is the boss, plus it is a turn on |
Why do boys spank each other in sports? I'm a girl so I dont understand like im the boys bball manager and like they do it to each other like its nothin. |
| its a friendly gesture, i doesnt mean anything. It is definetly not gay if thats what ur thinking |
How do i discipline my 30-month old boy who spanks other guys? my 2 year and 4 month- old boy is as big as a 4 year old and he is a bully. he spanks other guys whom he dislikes or playing with. He is lovely and sweet but when he gets frustrated or didnt get what he wanted he gets furious. |
DO NOT SPANK YOUR CHILD!
Put him in the naughty corner or hold both of his hands and neal down to his height and tell him its not ok to spank other guyren!
And also try giving him a stress ball. Tell him everytime he gets angry scream at the ball and spank it. Then he'll learn.
But if it doesn't work. tell him that him that he needs to be good not bad.
Or...
get a good boy chart.
Every time he's good and he doesn't hit or be naughty he gets to move up a number which is normally from 1-10.
Then when he gets to ten take him shopping and get him a toy or some sweets.
That should work! |